The story began with a boy and a girl met in highschool. The boy fell in love. The girl fell in love. They decided to have a relationship together. They went to college. They finished college. They worked. The relationship lasted for 7 years.
One day the boy decided to further his education abroad. They had long distance relationship. After less than a year they decided to break up.
The girl went to China to study language. She went to heal her broken heart. One year past. The boy finished her education and come back home. The girl finished her education and come back home. The girl contacted the boy to arrange a meeting. "An old friend catch-up", as they described. The girl gave the boy an invitation. The girl found someone else when she was in China. The girl is getting married.
What I see from this story is.. apparently, finding a soulmate is not a matter of love. It is a matter of timing.
You could be head over heels in love with a person for years when you are 20, but with no satisfactory job, no money, or if you haven't finish college (master degree, MBA, blah blah), marriage is not an option.
You could be head over heels in love with a person for years when you are 20, but with no satisfactory job, no money, or if you haven't finish college (master degree, MBA, blah blah), marriage is not an option.
On the other hand, when you reach 30 and you've got everything, a very young relationship with a partner (say one year) could end up in marriage.
Is that mean that we just have to wait for the right moment; not the right person?
Is that mean that we just have to wait for the right moment; not the right person?
2 comments:
Couldn't agree more ! ;)
Those 20-something boyfriends are definitely partners in crime for fun.
But marriage... heem, guess need more than that
Eka: thanks for dropping by. "Partner in crime for fun" i like it!
...but really?
It's kinda hard for women to see boyfriend just for fun. Or is it just me?
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